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Tough Mango's avatar

I so needed this! I’m the eldest daughter as well and shuddered at being called mean, but ur also right- we had to be. Forgiving ourselves for who we HAD to be to survive is something I work on daily. the final comment from your brother shattered my heart bc that’s something I’ll just never hear. Ty for sharing!

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Tai Goodwin's avatar

Your story made me think about the layers I wrapped myself in to protect myself... and all the hard work and years it took to peel them away and embody who I really am.

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